What A (Lonely) Single Girl Is Really Thinking

Points that huuuurt (but shouldn’t, like, HUHUHU):

1. She may be genuinely happy for her friends becoming engaged or married; however, that also serves to remind her she is still alone and the things that she is missing out on.

5. She will begin to wonder what’s wrong with her. Why all those other girls – including the previous girlfriend(s) of all the guys – have something that allows them to be “girlfriend material”.

6. The phrases “not looking to date”, “don’t believe in love” or “don’t need a guy” may be what you are hearing vocally. But it’s because she’s being strong – inside her mind, she is wishing someone would show her love DOES exist. That someone who will break down those walls she’s built and remind her that she is only human and deserves to feel intimate affection.

14. Last but not least, the worst phrase she can hear is “there is someone out there for everyone” – she knows many older females (or males) who are still alone, who never find “that one” – and it could very well possibly be her.

 

But I’m thinking I’m not yet ready too and I should just first “discover” myself. Well, I don’t know what’s (or who’s) to come for 2015 but I’ll always be waiting for God’s will, especially. I’m just really going to be positive ❤

Thought Catalog

Khánh HmoongKhánh Hmoong

Sometimes, being single can be a good thing – you focus on your interests or career, learn to love and be yourself and fully independent. But what happens when that girl has done that and is ready for someone to love and love her back – yet that never happens? The world isn’t fair, nor is it perfect but that’s just how life is. For those who are happy being single or in loving relationships, before you judge that single girl for what she appears to be like on the outside – know that these are the thoughts that she will think of constantly – yet never tell.

1. She may be genuinely happy for her friends becoming engaged or married; however, that also serves to remind her she is still alone and the things that she is missing out on.

2. As cheesy as it sounds, being…

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